embracing boundaries after having none

honoring your growth even when it is hard.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-IQsLtXqbw

after my unexpected (but embraced) year of solitude, my whole view on myself and love had changed.

i had spent that year pouring into me, discovering the beauty of self-love and the lessons braided into my past.

i realized i lacked boundaries in relationships because i cherished having a partner more than i valued being truly honored in love.

now, in the present moment, i am putting all of my realizations and growth into actual life and to be honest, it is not always the fondest feeling.

it’s easy to state how you want to be treated, but, as a previous anxious attachment girl, it’s what comes next that can be hard:

honoring your boundaries

in the past i would fight for my boundaries and almost beg my partner to accept them. when really, all we are truly called to do is state our boundaries and process the actions reciprocated from them accordingly.

i know it can be hard being open to the possibility of “losing” someone whose presence can be such a joy, but your boundaries are a natural sifter for those who are for you and those who are not.

if the response to your boundaries is disrespect, allow them to be sifted out of your life until further notice.

the divine has a way of teaching each soul in a specific, personal way. it is not your job to make someone see the beauty that is you, if they are blessed with that capability, it will be shown in a way that feels true, like a homecoming…

it will not be by debating your boundaries and diminishing the value of your word.

we have to water faith within us that nothing that is truly ours can be lost. you cannot lose what is for you and what is not for you, you do not want.

the divine plan is beyond our comprehension, for what looks could be “lost” is never truly lost if it is ours. you never know what the person, place, experience that is approaching your orbit needs to go through in order to be in the divine design for you.

everything is always working out for YOU.

i believe the breadcrumbs of this grand design of life that we are meant to follow are in our intuitions, our interests, our desires, our joys, our shadows, and our boundaries.

if the person you are interested in is for you, trust that the divine breadcrumbs will either confirm your divine union or make you aware of a misalignment… don’t sweep your intuition under the rug for the sake of comfort.

when you deny yourself authenticity and settle for less than your purest expression, you are denying yourself the beauty that is waiting for you just a couple of breadcrumbs away.

your blessings are always on the other side of a couple of breadcrumbs whether it takes you the first one to surrender or a million more, you will get there… the only difference is when you choose the better for you.

personally, i would rather you spare yourself the cycles of settling and decide to walk in faith of something far greater now.

i hope you allow yourself awareness of the breadcrumbs in your life, and you pursue them, enjoying the journey of self-discovery, self-love, and pure self-expression as you step into your own personal heaven.

may you respect, honor, value, and love yourself daily because you deserve it.

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